Last weekend I attended my niece's wedding dinner hosted by her father. She married a Dutch national in early May this year and they could only get leave from their respective jobs at this time to hold their wedding dinner back here in Malaysia.
Here they are cutting their wedding cake.
Dinner started off with the usual cold dish or starters, called Triple Happiness Combinations served on a 3-tiered dish. The top tier contained cucumbers with mayonaise and a baby octopus sitting on top of each cucumber. The middle tier held fish balls nicely fried and the last tier had delicious soft shelled crab, very crispy.
Look at the menu.
You will understand then how much I enjoyed the dinner. The roasted suckling pig was very tender and the skin crispy, with hardly any fat beneath.
The cod fish and sea cucumber were also very tasty but I didn't quite enjoy the prawns as they were rather hard to peel.
However the nicest part of any such family dinner is the catching up and re-bonding with family members who had come from as far as the UK, Hong Kong, Singapore and the Land below The Wind. The Aussie branch were not able to make it this time. We had three lovely Dragon babies to carry and cuddle during the course of the evening.
Here is a picture of some of us.
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Monday, August 12, 2013
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Writing, A Most Satisfying Pastime
Writing is such a satisfying pastime. However there is a difference in writing under the weight of deadlines and writing for pleasure.
I remember when I wrote my first English grammar book. I was under great compulsion to write it because of the need to fill a vacuum created by the switch in the medium of instruction in Malaysian schools. Teachers were told that with the then new English communication syllabus, the teaching of English grammar was no longer necessary. So long as the message could be understood, that was it, such as “Me Tarzan, you Jane”.
Thus many students did not learn the fundamentals of English grammar and they could not structure a proper sentence in English. Their speaking and writing skills deteriorated to the extent that they were not employable in the private sector once they completed their secondary and tertiary education.
I wrote “English Grammar, A Malaysian Student Guide” but because it was not commissioned, it was very difficult to get a publisher to publish it. The book was completed in 6 months but it took three years to come into print form. The Sabah State Director of Education then launched the book and it was most gratifying to know that this book would help those who had no idea of what English grammar is all about and why it is so important if one wants to be proficient in the English Language.
Then I was approached by another publisher to write a series of English grammar books, this time with exercises in them so that any learner, student or adult, can apply their understanding of the grammar rules by completing the exercises. These four books, “Casey and Penny’s Guide to English”, were written with a very tight deadline. Two months I believe and a short while later, they were out on the market.
The same publishing company also commissioned me to write a series of “I Can Read” stories retold, for young children. This series I had great pleasure in writing, despite the challenge of having to re-tell a story in a certain number of words as well as coming up with enrichment activities at the end of each book. They are also available on the market. Nothing beats the feeling you get when you see your books on the shelves.
Now it is even easier for budding writers to publish their own books. Kindle and its sister company Createspace have made it very simple for writers to self-publish online. Unfortunately Kindle ebooks are not made available in the Pacific region. This is very sad. However books in print form are available from amazon.com published by createspace. I have uploaded a number of ebooks on Kindle. This one is for children and is meant for parents to read to them. "Let's Save The Tiger" will educate the young ones about why it is necessary to do something to save these beautiful animals.
It has been a most pleasurable pastime writing these books and I hope that you, my readers, will encourage me by giving me your support and visiting amazon.com to check out my books.
"The Encounter" is followed by its sequel "You Can't Have Her!"
I remember when I wrote my first English grammar book. I was under great compulsion to write it because of the need to fill a vacuum created by the switch in the medium of instruction in Malaysian schools. Teachers were told that with the then new English communication syllabus, the teaching of English grammar was no longer necessary. So long as the message could be understood, that was it, such as “Me Tarzan, you Jane”.
Thus many students did not learn the fundamentals of English grammar and they could not structure a proper sentence in English. Their speaking and writing skills deteriorated to the extent that they were not employable in the private sector once they completed their secondary and tertiary education.
I wrote “English Grammar, A Malaysian Student Guide” but because it was not commissioned, it was very difficult to get a publisher to publish it. The book was completed in 6 months but it took three years to come into print form. The Sabah State Director of Education then launched the book and it was most gratifying to know that this book would help those who had no idea of what English grammar is all about and why it is so important if one wants to be proficient in the English Language.

Then I was approached by another publisher to write a series of English grammar books, this time with exercises in them so that any learner, student or adult, can apply their understanding of the grammar rules by completing the exercises. These four books, “Casey and Penny’s Guide to English”, were written with a very tight deadline. Two months I believe and a short while later, they were out on the market.

The same publishing company also commissioned me to write a series of “I Can Read” stories retold, for young children. This series I had great pleasure in writing, despite the challenge of having to re-tell a story in a certain number of words as well as coming up with enrichment activities at the end of each book. They are also available on the market. Nothing beats the feeling you get when you see your books on the shelves.
Now it is even easier for budding writers to publish their own books. Kindle and its sister company Createspace have made it very simple for writers to self-publish online. Unfortunately Kindle ebooks are not made available in the Pacific region. This is very sad. However books in print form are available from amazon.com published by createspace. I have uploaded a number of ebooks on Kindle. This one is for children and is meant for parents to read to them. "Let's Save The Tiger" will educate the young ones about why it is necessary to do something to save these beautiful animals.
It has been a most pleasurable pastime writing these books and I hope that you, my readers, will encourage me by giving me your support and visiting amazon.com to check out my books.
"The Encounter" is followed by its sequel "You Can't Have Her!"
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
70 A Significant Number
70 is a significant number in one's life especially to the Chinese community. Three score and ten, a great age to be. I reached that milestone today.
Unfortunately my grandchildren are not able to be with me today. They had to return to Singapore a day earlier as they had school activities which now have been suspended because of the haze that has shot into the hazardous levels. Going out into the garden to bring in the laundry gives rise to headaches and an itchy throat which then results in a cough.
I woke up to see a lovely bouquet of orchids and many gifts on the dining table. It was such a lovely surprise. My younger daughter flew in a few days ago and my son will arrive this afternoon. Tonight we will celebrate my birthday with a dinner.
How does it make me feel to wake up on this day? I thank the good Lord for giving me this day to celebrate with my family. As my late father used to say, everyday you wake up is a bonus so give thanks.
I've received many good wishes from my children, siblings and friends. A big thank you to all of them for remembering. It feels beautiful to receive flowers and gifts. The greatest feeling is that of being loved and appreciated. Praise the Lord for His abundant blessings and a loving family, immediate and extended and of course my good old friends who have been with me for many many years.
Unfortunately my grandchildren are not able to be with me today. They had to return to Singapore a day earlier as they had school activities which now have been suspended because of the haze that has shot into the hazardous levels. Going out into the garden to bring in the laundry gives rise to headaches and an itchy throat which then results in a cough.
I woke up to see a lovely bouquet of orchids and many gifts on the dining table. It was such a lovely surprise. My younger daughter flew in a few days ago and my son will arrive this afternoon. Tonight we will celebrate my birthday with a dinner.
How does it make me feel to wake up on this day? I thank the good Lord for giving me this day to celebrate with my family. As my late father used to say, everyday you wake up is a bonus so give thanks.
I've received many good wishes from my children, siblings and friends. A big thank you to all of them for remembering. It feels beautiful to receive flowers and gifts. The greatest feeling is that of being loved and appreciated. Praise the Lord for His abundant blessings and a loving family, immediate and extended and of course my good old friends who have been with me for many many years.
Friday, June 21, 2013
Give Yourself A Boost
Do you feel comfortable with yourself? Do you like yourself? If you do, that’s good for it shows you are a confident person and positive about yourself.If your answers to the questions above were in the negative, or you’re not sure of yourself, these are what you can do to feel good.
Very often we tend to compare ourselves with others and find ourselves lacking. Take comfort in the fact that no two persons are alike. We have different God-given talents.
Our good qualities may not be apparent to us but they are clearly perceived by others. So if you need a boost, ask your friends to write down three good things about you. Their answers may very well surprise you.
Try not to focus on yourself all the time. Think of others and how you can help them, how you can make a difference in their lives, no matter how small it may be. Give praise where it is due. Rejoice in your friends’ successes. You’ll be surprised at how good you feel. Remember, what goes round comes around.
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